Right from the word go I got the children’s birthday parties wrong for my two eldest children. What was I thinking? My head was buried somewhere else because from elaborate parties to huge catering bashes from decorative gatherings to theme parties, I did everything unsuitable for their age. The under 5-year-old doesn’t remember or get super excited about the whole sha-bam and from experience the under 5-year-old’s get into frenzies, have tantrums or go into overdrive from excitement on the…